Wedding Ceremonies

I am very happy and excited to be able to perform weddings for both same sex and heterosexual couples. I am a humanist in philosophy, so do not do religious ceremonies, but am eager to incorporate whatever religious and ethnic traditions that are important to you as a couple and to your family.I have a short ceremony which I have personally developed from writings of many sources, but am even more pleased when you want to write your own words of love and commitment, either in part or entirely.

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Weddings can take place wherever you prefer: at the Government Center where you get your marriage license; at your home; outdoors or any place of your choosing; or at my home, which has a lovely solarium, a yard on a lake, and is next to the Arboretum. No witnesses are required, but any number of guests is most welcome. If children are involved, they certainly can be part of the ceremony, if you so desire.

Pre-Marital Counseling

Often couples have concerns that are hard to talk about, when so in love and while planning a wedding. As an experienced couples therapist, as well as a Justice of the Peace, I can offer assistance in discussing difficult topics, and in helping a couple come to compromises and better understanding of each other.

Examples of issues that arise in almost any marriage are the handling of money and financial attitudes; stepparenting; cultural and religious differences; and dysfunctional family problems. If these and other worries can be addressed early in a relationship, their chance for effective management is greatly enhanced. This process also enables skills in honest and open communication.

Because I so believe in the value of pre-marital talking, I will provide a package of two 60-90 minute counseling sessions, at my home office, in addition to the basic wedding ceremony, for a set fee of $450.00. To arrange appointments, and to get further information, call me or email. Also, see Couples Therapy to get an idea of how I work with couples.

Legal Requirements

Connecticut laws of course must be observed. For both Connecticut residents and non-residents, the marriage license must be obtained at the Town Clerk's office in the town in which the wedding is to be held. I am authorized to perform weddings at any venue in the State. Both parties must apply for the license (not necessarily at the same time), providing proof of person, age, prior marriages and dissolutions. Depending on the locale, at least 24 hours is usually required between the time of applying for and receiving the license, but this can be discussed with your local Town Clerk. No blood tests or other waiting periods are required The cost is $30 for the license, and if you want a copy after the ceremony has been recorded, the cost is another $10. (A copy is not necessary, as it will always remain on the Town Clerk's files, and these fees are subject to change per legislative order). You must present the completed license to me at the time of the ceremony; I will then sign it and deliver it to the local Town Clerk. In Stamford, Connecticut, the Town Clerk's office is on the first floor of the Government Center, at 888 Washington Blvd, and the phone number is 203-977-4054.

Contact Information:

Phone: 203-329-9121

Fax: 203-329-8433


One of the many weddings I have performed Another happy occasion at which I presided Wedding-summer of 2015 Another happy couple